Donald Trump is a troublesome determine to take care of, each for international leaders and figures nearer to residence who discover themselves in his crosshairs. The US president is unpredictable, delicate and prepared to interrupt the principles to get his approach.
However in Trump’s second time period, a wide range of totally different leaders and establishments appear to have settled on a solution to deal with him. The important thing, they appear to suppose, is flattery. The obvious instance got here on the not too long ago concluded Nato summit in The Hague, Netherlands, the place world leaders obtained collectively to debate the way forward for the alliance.
Earlier summits with Trump have descended into recrimination and backbiting. The organisers have been decided to keep away from a repeat – and determined one of the simplest ways to do it was to make Trump really feel actually, actually good about himself.
Even earlier than the summit started, Nato secretary-general Mark Rutte had texted Trump to thank him for his “decisive motion” in bombing Iran. This, he mentioned, was one thing “nobody else dared to do”.
Then, when discussing Trump’s function in ending the battle between Israel and Iran, Rutte referred to Trump as “daddy” – a reputation the White Home has already transformed right into a meme.
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The summit itself was gentle on the type of contentious and detailed coverage discussions which have traditionally bored and angered Trump.
As an alternative, it was lowered to a sequence of photograph alternatives and speeches by which different leaders lavished reward on Trump. Lithuania’s president, Gitanas Nausėda, even prompt the alliance ought to repeat Trump’s political motion by adopting the phrase “make Nato nice once more”.
Nato leaders aren’t the one ones attempting this trick. British prime minister Keir Starmer has had a go at it too. Starmer has made positive that Trump would be the first US president to make a second state go to to the UK. He described the honour in Trump-like phrases: “This has by no means occurred earlier than. It’s so unbelievable. It will likely be historic.”
After Trump introduced international commerce tariffs earlier within the 12 months, Starmer was the primary chief to offer Trump a much-needed victory by reaching a framework trade agreement. However it labored each methods, with Starmer in a position to land a political victory too.
In his first time period, flattery was additionally seen as a device for use to get Trump onside. Ukraine’s Volodymyr Zelensky tried it in telephone conversations with the US president, calling him a “nice instructor” from whom he realized “abilities and data”.
Flattery and compliance clearly have their makes use of. Trump is extremely sensitive to criticism and prone to reward, nonetheless hyperbolic and clear it is likely to be. Buttering him up could also be an efficient solution to get him to again off.
However it doesn’t obtain a lot else. On the Nato summit, a possibility was missed to make progress on problems with actual significance, resembling easy methods to higher help Ukraine in its battle in opposition to Russia or to higher coordinate European defence spending.
A summit devoted to the only real purpose of constructing Trump really feel good is one with very restricted goals certainly. All it does is push the troublesome selections ahead for an additional day.
A missed alternative
Particular person selections to bow all the way down to Trump additionally imply lacking the chance to mount collective resistance. One nation may not be capable to stand as much as the president, however the odds of doing so could be enormously improved if leaders banded collectively.
For instance, Trump’s commerce tariffs will damage the US economy in addition to these of its buying and selling companions. That’s particularly the case if these companions impose tariffs of their very own on US items.
If every nation as an alternative follows Britain’s lead within the hope of getting the perfect deal for itself, they’ll have missed the chance to drive the president to really feel some discomfort of his personal – and presumably change course.
However maybe the best hazard of flattering Trump is that it teaches him that he can get away with doing just about no matter he likes. For a president who has threatened to annex the territory of Nato allies Denmark and Canada to nonetheless be feted at a Nato summit sends a message of impunity.
That’s a harmful lesson for Trump to study. He has spent a lot of his second time period undermining democratic and liberal norms at residence and key tenets of US international coverage overseas, resembling hostility to Russia. He’s making an attempt to undermine all conventional sources of authority and experience and as an alternative make the world dance to his personal tune.

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Given the expansive scope of his goals, which many experts already think is resulting in a constitutional disaster that threatens democracy, the willingness to suck as much as Trump normalises him in a menacing approach.
When his targets roll over, it sends a message to others that Trump is unstoppable and resistance is futile. It encourages not simply the subsequent presidential abuse of energy, but in addition the subsequent give up from these he chooses to assault.
Maybe the perfect that may be mentioned for this technique is that possibly it should appease Trump sufficient to forestall him from doing an excessive amount of precise hurt. However when coping with such an unpredictable and vindictive president, that could be a skinny reed of hope.
It’s more likely to encourage him to press on – till the hurt turns into too extreme to disregard.